Imagine you made a new friend (hard to imagine I know...!). Every time you see them, they are dressed impeccably and on trend. Then one day they come out looking tired, their clothes mismatched and scruffy. You would start to wonder what's up? Suddenly they start talking about topics you thought they had no interest in, they get angry if you say they are wrong and refuse to listen to your points. You would start to lose trust quite quickly in the person you thought they were.